You are just an average but the average of the five people around you. If you want to be above average, spend time with people who are above average.
Check who your connections are, whom you are spending the most time with, what their goals are in life, where do they stand today, how much positive they are, how much maturity they have. Shift yourself in the zone where you see above-average people.
When you will raise your bar, you will raise the bar for everyone around. When they will see the results, they will understand, you don’t have to explain. Be smart, select your average.