Every time we are told to be humble, the person telling us so is mostly never humble himself.
Every time we are told to mind our own business, the person telling is mostly not minding his own.
Every time we are told not to advise without being asked, the person telling so is mostly giving advice without being asked.
Every time we are told not to judge others, the person telling so is mostly judging.
Every time we are told not to compete, the person telling so is mostly in the competition of proving.
So what is the point? Point is simple, what you teach others not to be, you become the one. Does that mean, you should not suggest? You should, but suggest when asked and suggest what is the way to it. Not the right way or wrong way, just THE WAY.