Know yourself. Don’t do anything just because other’s are doing. It’s okay to be left out, if being in a group isn’t taking you towards your vision.
To take your own path is okay, if that is how you are. And being with the crowd is okay too, if that’s you.
Neither of the ways is good or bad, and nothing is right or wrong.
Just do what you are to enjoy what you are doing. Don’t do things just because others are doing it.